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Anatomy & Safety for BDSM

BDSM is fun, but also carries risks.

BDSM is an exciting and vast field, but also carries many traps and (unexpected) risks. 100% safety doesn't exist. However, we want to look at typical risks and damages, in order to minimize their probability of occurring and, in case they do occur, to keep the damage as low as possible.

Workshop Content

The course covers important, safety-relevant fundamentals for Bondage and SM. Anatomy is essential foundational knowledge, as is understanding your own body, communicating about it, creating back-ups and contingency plans, and knowing how to respond in case of injury or emerging problems.

Typical dangers and risks in BDSM

SSC vs. RACK – how to do it correctly?

Anatomy & where the "red zones" are

Agreements, responsibilities and how reality (unfortunately) plays out

Influencing factors and assessing situations for appropriate play

Real case examples of accidents and open discussion round

Participant questions

Target Audiences

The course is aimed at all people who engage with (or want to engage with) BDSM, regardless of their level or role. Anatomy and safety is a topic that is consistently important, and regular refreshers help keep the key points in mind and reduce risks.

It can be attended solo, as a couple, or as a poly group.

NICHT Inhalte

Der Workshop ist keine medizinische oder juristische Beratung und er kann keine eigene Risikobewertung ersetzen. Er hilft sich ein besseres eigenes Bild machen zu können. Die VerantwortungThe workshop is not medical or legal advice and cannot replace your own risk assessment. It helps you form a better personal understanding of the topic. Responsibility lies with the participants. You can also attend the workshop alone. liegt bei den Beteiligten. Man kann am Workshop auch alleine teilnehmen.

Prerequisites

No prior knowledge is required. Those who would like to bring their own stories and topics are welcome to do so.

Organizational Details

The workshop is available both online and as an in-person format.

Why Coach Dan?

Coach | Advisor | Trainer

With over 25 years of experience in Shibari, BDSM, and non-monogamous relationships, and over 20 years as an advisor, I help people find their own path and live their lives the way they wish.

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