Über Dan
Kink Coach · Shibari · BDSM · Nicht-Monogamie
Dan Apus Monoceros is a holistic coach for personal development, kink, and relationships – with a particular focus on BDSM, Shibari, and non-monogamy.
He is polynormous, gay, and sadistic. He has been living what he coaches for many years, which means he draws not only on professional knowledge but on his own lived experience.
This combination of lived experience and professional guidance makes his work unique: he knows the questions, doubts, and moments of blossoming that his clients bring, because he has gone through them himself.
Dan works in a resource-oriented, humorous, and direct way – with all genders, relationship styles, and levels of experience.
From Consultant to Coach
Dan brings an unusual background. With a Bachelor in Business Communication and a Master in Innovation Management, he was a successful business consultant. But something was missing. The topics didn't speak to his heart. That changed when he began selling sex toys – combined with consulting. He quickly noticed: people were less interested in the toys than in the conversations they sparked. The consulting was the real thing. He no longer sells the toys today – but he does share his knowledge, his experience, and his perspective.
Was ihn antreibt
Dan is motivated by helping people see their questions more clearly. Not by giving them answers – but by accompanying them part of the way on a journey toward better self-understanding.
And of course the subject matter itself: identity, kink, and relationships are not fringe topics for him – they are the core of human experience.
He works in a resource-oriented, humorous, and very direct way – with all genders, relationship styles, and levels of experience.
Erfahrung & Auftritte
Dan has been doing rope bondage since 2002 – that is over two decades of active practice with Shibari and Bondage in various styles and contexts.
Alongside this, he has been guiding people for more than 15 years in coaching and consulting around kink, sexuality, and relationships.
He is regularly active at events and festivals – as a performer, workshop leader, and speaker. Most recently he appeared, among other events, at Passion Messe, Europe's largest BDSM fair, with workshops and shows.
