Shibari Coaching in Berlin — 1:1 Training with Dan Apus Monoceros
Whether you are just starting to explore the fascinating world of Shibari or want to take your bondage skills to the next level – in my exclusive 1:1 private sessions I will accompany you on your very personal journey. Individual. Respectful. With passion for the art of rope.
What to Expect
Why 1:1 Private Lessons?
Group offerings have their appeal – but the real breakthrough happens in a personal setting. In our 1:1 sessions you get my undivided attention. I fully adapt the pace, content and methodology to you. No templates, no average offerings – just your personal development path.
✓ 100% individually tailored to your needs
✓ Flexible appointment by arrangement – online or at my studio in Berlin
✓ All experience levels welcome – beginners to professionals
✓ Discreet, safe and appreciative atmosphere
✓ Teaching in German or English possible
✓ Learning materials and follow-up support included
Your Coach: Dan Apus Monoceros
Shibari Artist and Bondage Coach
*I am Dan Apus Monoceros and have been tying for almost 25 years. I am fascinated by the connection of technique, aesthetics and human intimacy that Shibari embodies. In my teaching experience, I combine these with empathy and openness for you and your wishes.
“I often felt overwhelmed in Shibari workshops. In private coaching with Dan, I learned simple, practical ties – exactly what I actually wanted.”
“The coaching helped me rebuild a genuine connection with my partner. Dan’s approach is appreciative and respectful, but also humorous and relaxed. It was simply a wonderful time for us.”
“I was skeptical whether Shibari individual coaching offers more than a course. But Dan addressed our specific problems and needs so precisely that we made more progress in those 3 hours than in the last 3 months.”
“I have been tying for over 30 years and have my own style. Dan showed me ways to make familiar ties faster, safer or more playful.”
How Your Session Works
The process shown here is exemplary. Ultimately, we will always look situationally at the beginning of the session at how to best shape it in order to give you the best experience for what you need most in that moment.
1. Define Goals & Prior Knowledge
We discuss your wishes, prior knowledge and limits in an open, confidential atmosphere.
2. Key Fundamentals
Depending on knowledge level and topic, we start with theory, anatomy or material knowledge, or we simply review the most important ties we'll need later.
3. Practice & Exercises
The focus of each session is on active doing. You get space and time to practice, experience and try things out, and you receive direct, constructive feedback.
4. Reflection & Follow-up
At the end of each lesson, we take time for questions, feedback and planning the next steps.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need my own ropes?
No, for starters I provide all the necessary materials. During the course of the lessons I am happy to advise you on building your own rope collection. Some selected ropes can also be obtained directly from me.
Is Shibari also suitable for beginners without BDSM experience?
Absolutely. Many of my students come without any prior experience. Shibari can be learned completely independently of any BDSM practice - as a pure art form, as a kind of partner or self-meditation, or as an intimate process.
Can I book online?
Yes! Online sessions via video call are possible for theoretical content, knot instructions and feedback. For suspension and certain advanced techniques, I recommend in-person sessions at my studio.
Do you also offer home visits?
Not as a standard offering. However, if I'm traveling for public workshops, I can offer private lessons on-site as part of that trip, provided we have a suitable space available.
Do I need a regular partner?
No. A regular partner is helpful for some to build trust and adjust to each other better, but changing partners also helps you get to know different body and personality types. The slightly bigger challenge at the beginning will make it easier for you later to adapt to new partners.
Can you set me up with a partner?
No! I don't make direct introductions to potential partners. However, we do have a few people on our team who are happy to be available for practice. Whether you're a good match and how you arrange things is something you'll need to work out between yourselves.
You Have the Choice!
Whether trial session, single session or 5-session package: choose the offer that best suits your goals and experience level.
Trial Session (90 min.)
Perfect for beginners and curious newcomers. We get to know each other, discuss your goals, and dive into the first basic techniques.
Single Session (2 hrs.)
A specific question or just looking to optimize a little? An intensive session for everyone who wants to work in a focused way on one topic.
5-Session Package – Your Intensive Course
Five progressively building sessions for maximum progress. We define your learning goals together and build a tailored curriculum. With a package discount compared to individual sessions.
This offer is exclusively for persons aged 18 and over. All activities in the context of private lessons are based on informed consent, mutual respect and clear communication. Shibari and bondage involve physical risks – safety always has the highest priority in my lessons. If you have any health concerns, please consult a doctor before booking.