Shibari Coaching in Berlin — 1:1 Training with Dan Apus Monoceros
I am Dan Apus Monoceros, experienced kink coach in Berlin. I guide people who want to explore their sexuality, limits and desires in a safe space — discreet, respectful and holistic. Whether Shibari, BDSM or kink coaching: the first step is a confidential conversation.

“I often felt overwhelmed in Shibari workshops. In private coaching with Dan, I learned simple, practical ties – exactly what I actually wanted.”
“The coaching helped me rebuild a genuine connection with my partner. Dan’s approach is appreciative and respectful, but also humorous and relaxed. It was simply a wonderful time for us.”
“I was skeptical whether Shibari individual coaching offers more than a course. But Dan addressed our specific problems and needs so precisely that we made more progress in those 3 hours than in the last 3 months.”
“I have been tying for over 30 years and have my own style. Dan showed me ways to make familiar ties faster, safer or more playful.”
The Offer
1:1 Shibari Coaching in Berlin — personal, discreet and tailored to your pace. Choose the format that suits you.
Initial Consultation
You want to first see if we're a good fit? No problem. During the first 20 minutes you can end the conversation at any time without any costs.
Single Session
90 Min. Shibari Coaching 1:1 — in person in Berlin or online, by appointment.
6-Session Package
Six sessions for sustainable development — with a personal learning path and guided reflection.
Frequently Asked Questions
What happens in the initial consultation?
The initial consultation lasts 60 minutes and is free, confidential, and non-binding. We look together at what you need and whether coaching makes sense for you.
Is the coaching discreet and confidential?
Yes. All content stays between us. I work under strict confidentiality and without real names or photos.
Do I need experience with Shibari?
No. The coaching is open to everyone — from complete beginners to people with prior knowledge who want to go deeper.
How long does a session last?
A single session lasts 90 minutes. The initial consultation lasts 60 minutes.
Does the coaching take place online or in person?
Both are possible. Individual sessions take place in Berlin or online via video — depending on your preferences.
What does the coaching cost?
I share the prices with you during the initial consultation. The initial consultation itself is free.
Who is this coaching suitable for?
For everyone who wants to discover Shibari as a tool for connection, body awareness, or communication — regardless of experience, identity, or background.

